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How often have we heard others talk about how ?intelligent? they consider someone to be? Intelligence is a description of how good someone is at mentally doing something. Intelligence involves thought. Intelligence includes the ability to reason Logan Cooke Jersey , plan, solve problems, think abstractly, comprehend ideas and language and to learn.


Do you consider yourself to be intelligent?


Schools and the education system would have us believe that we are only intelligent if we are able to solve complex abstract problems or remember facts and figures. I would agree that this is a type of intelligence and this type of intelligence is normally referred to as IQ or ?intelligence quotient? (a phrase coined by an American psychologist named Lewis Terman).


A small proportion of the population has a high IQ and they find the academic type of learning and activities in school relatively easy. But the vast majority of people don't. So where does that leave everyone else?


Well, the good news is that IQ is not a measure of success. Most people with a high IQ do not go on to be as successful as their IQ score may lead us to believe. Most people with a high IQ take reasonably well paid Ronnie Harrison Jersey , but routine, employment. Most are not happy with risk and rather limit their own success by becoming ?comfortable? and fall far short of what their potential suggests.


There is another type of intelligence that may be more important to success in life and this has been publicised by the best-selling book ?Emotional Intelligence? (or EQ) by Daniel Goleman (although the term was first used several years earlier by two academics - Mayer and Salovey).


EQ has to do with recognizing, understanding, and choosing how we think, feel Jacksonville Jaguars Jersey , and act. It shapes our interactions with others and our understanding of ourselves. It defines how and what we learn; it allows us to set priorities; it determines the majority of our daily actions.


EQ is the capacity to create positive outcomes in our relationships with ourselves and others. These learnable skills create joy, love, and success of all kinds.


Studying EQ it becomes clear that IQ has less to do with success in life than EQ. The good news is that we all have EQ and that it can be developed. We can develop our EQ to help us build our relationships with others, to use our emotions appropriately, to focus our efforts and to become more successful in life.


EQ may be so important that it could be the best predictor of who will succeed in any area of life.


Can we look beyond IQ and EQ?


When you look at the world Braden Smith Jersey , do you see only space and time, mass and energy, logic and reason? Or do you also see connectivity and design, purpose and meaning, faith and mystery?


In his book ?What's your SQ?? Michael Guillen has developed the idea of 'spiritual intelligence? or SQ. SQ considers your views beyond the materialistic living of modern life. Without spirituality it is possible to become very unhappy or dissatisfied with life no matter how much material possessions we accumulate.


Can you be successful if you are not truly happy? I would argue not and that a balance of IQ Darius Leonard Jersey , EQ and SQ are necessary for a happy and successful life.


Are there any other forms of intelligence? Yes, there is another important theory on multiple intelligences and you can read about that in another article.


To be happy and successful in life focus on your EQ and SQ. If you are fortunate enough to have some IQ too then all the better ? but don't rely on your IQ alone.


Indecision crystallizes into doubt, and the two blended together become fear. They will germinate and grow in our minds without us even realising it, thus we must pay close attention, guard our minds at all times and not allow indecision and the feelings of doubt and fear to fester in us Quenton Nelson Jersey , otherwise, this is where we fail at achieving anything, at seeing anything we undertake come to fruition or we start but do not see it through.


For the application of the philosophy of THINK AND GROW RICH to work we must first get rid of any indecision, doubt and fear.


Napoleon Hill talks about six basic fears and says that sometimes they are deeply hidden in our subconscious mind and thus we don’t even realise they are there and they are some of the reasons stopping us from moving forward as we want to.


Sometimes, failing in business or in love also sends people to hospital Indianapolis Colts Jersey , however, this happens because of the way we let our mind at that moment, the pain, to take over and fester, that the pain grows more acute. N H is certainly not suggesting that we never feel pain Houston Texans Jersey , we all have feelings after all, but it is how we decide to handle the pain and how long we want to be in pain for or dwell on it that causes us to go into despair.


The fear of loss of love. “This fear is the most painful of all the six basic fears…”, many of us have at one point in our lives felt destroyed by this, again now that we understand how the mind works and that we and only we are in control of it, we can be in pain it’s perfectly natural JK Scott Jersey , but for how long and how in control we are is up to us. We can choose to either be destroyed forever by the loss or simply that fear or we can choose and decide that we are worth more than feelings of despair or simply worth more than that fear and fight against it for our own sanity and the sanity of our relationship by not giving into it and banishing it completely focusing on the things that make us happy if we are still in a relationship or if we are no longer in one focusing on things that make us happy so as to not focus on what saddens us; before we know it, the pain will be gone.